My Interpretation of Oprah’s Top 7 Tips for Creating The Life You Want
1. Keep your focus in the right place.
Too many people Multi-Task. Multi-tasking doesn’t work, before the phrase “multi-task” there was no such thing as ADD or ADAH. Pick out something important to do that you love to do and stick with it. See where that gets you.
2. Redefine failure.
To fail only means you didn’t get what you want in the time you wanted it. Use this as a learning experience and think “as if” you still can get something like what you want. Work backwards and try again to get what you want. It took Edison 1001 tries to get the light bulb to work. The other 1000 tries were just 1000 ways it wouldn’t work.
3. You are fuelling your own fear.
Do you want to fuel your fear by focusing on it? Focus on what you can do and what you can control and the fear will melt away.
4. Do the right thing.
We all know the difference between right and wrong. Sometimes we let the people around us influence in the wrong way. Be strong enough to stick to your moral code.
5. You get what you give. In more than one way.
The secret of the law of attraction works both ways. If you are always trying to fix other people instead of working on yourself you will only get more heartbreak. Free your mind and the rest will follow. If you have faith in yourself and stay real, the negative people around you will disappear. If you continue to try to fix them, they will continue to wreck you.
6. Let go of the past. Live in the present.
The “Now” is the only time we have. The past is in our mind and the future is not hear yet. You can never move ahead if you are always looking behind.
7. It’s up to you what happens.
You are always in control of your life. You might blame other people for your troubles but ultimatly you put yourself in the position for them to take advantage of you. Blaming yourself and focusing on the “why” will not help you get out of the situation unless you break yourself away from the emotion of the situation. Learn and move on. Stop waisting your time fuelling your victim and grow